The 4 of Us: Bobbi Dhlomo

The middle sibling who has spent his life feeling overlooked. Compassionate, dependable and deeply empathetic, he often serves as the emotional glue that holds the family together, despite rarely receiving the recognition he longs for.

Always living between his accomplished older siblings, Banzi struggles with feelings of invisibility and self-doubt. His desire to be acknowledged can sometimes manifest in passive-aggressive behaviour and emotional manipulation, particularly when he feels excluded or undervalued.

Throughout the series, Banzi is forced to confront his own insecurities and discover that his worth is not defined by the validation of others, but by the person he has always been